Directness: A Lesson Learned from Trying a New Cuisine

Dear friends, I’m here today to share a tale from my younger days, a tale that taught me the value of directness. It’s a story that revolves around a simple, yet profound experience – trying a new cuisine for the first time.

The Adventure Begins

It was the summer of ’65, and I was a young man eager to explore the world. I found myself in the vibrant city of Bangkok, Thailand, a place teeming with exotic aromas and unfamiliar flavors. One day, I decided to venture into a local eatery, a humble place that promised an authentic Thai culinary experience.

The Lesson Unfolds

As I sat down, the waiter handed me a menu filled with dishes I couldn’t pronounce. I was overwhelmed, to say the least. Instead of asking for help, I decided to point at a random dish and hope for the best. When the dish arrived, it was nothing like I had expected. It was a fiery, spicy concoction that set my mouth ablaze. I struggled to finish it, but my pride wouldn’t let me admit my mistake.

It was then that I realized the importance of directness. Had I been direct with the waiter, asked for his recommendations, or even admitted my unfamiliarity with Thai cuisine, I could have enjoyed a meal suited to my palate. Instead, I ended up with a dish that was far too spicy for my liking.

Applying the Lesson

Life, my friends, is much like that Thai restaurant. It presents us with a menu of choices, and it’s up to us to be direct about what we want. Whether it’s in our personal relationships, our careers, or our dreams, being direct can save us from unnecessary discomfort and lead us to what truly satisfies us.

So, the next time you find yourself in a situation where you’re unsure or overwhelmed, remember my spicy Thai adventure. Be direct, ask for what you want, and don’t be afraid to admit when you’re out of your depth. It’s a simple lesson, but one that can make all the difference.

Until next time, remember to be direct, be bold, and embrace the spice of life.

Yours in wisdom,

Kev