Lessons from the Saddle: The Power of Leniency

Howdy, dear readers. Today, I’d like to share a story from my younger days, a tale that taught me the value of leniency. It’s a tale that involves a horse, a saddle, and a young man’s stubbornness. So, sit back, relax, and let’s take a ride down memory lane.

The Stubborn Colt

Back in my youth, I had a horse named Thunder. Thunder was a spirited colt, full of energy and determination. He was also as stubborn as a mule. I remember one particular day when I was trying to break him in. I was determined to show him who was boss, and I wasn’t going to let him get the better of me.

The Struggle

Day after day, I would saddle up Thunder, and day after day, he would buck and kick, refusing to be tamed. I was just as stubborn, and I refused to give in. I was convinced that the only way to break him in was through sheer force and determination.

The Lesson

One day, an old cowboy named Bill came by. He watched me struggle with Thunder for a while, then he said something that changed my perspective forever. “Son,” he said, “you’re going about this all wrong. You can’t force a horse to do your bidding. You have to earn his trust. You have to be lenient.”

The Power of Leniency

I was skeptical, but I was also desperate. So, I tried Bill’s approach. Instead of trying to dominate Thunder, I started to work with him. I was patient. I was understanding. I was lenient. And to my surprise, it worked. Thunder started to respond to me. He stopped bucking and kicking. He started to trust me. And in the end, we formed a bond that lasted for many years.

Conclusion

That’s the power of leniency, dear readers. It’s not about being weak or giving in. It’s about understanding, patience, and trust. It’s about working with others, not against them. It’s a lesson I learned from a horse, and it’s a lesson I’ve carried with me throughout my life.

So, the next time you find yourself in a struggle, remember Thunder. Remember the power of leniency. And remember that sometimes, the best way to win is not to fight, but to understand.

Until next time, stay wise and stay kind.

Kev